attn: single parents!

question for you single parents:

how would you feel if you chose a partner and they refused to ever be alone with your kid? that is, you've been in a relationship for 8 months and they still won't watch your kid for you if you need it.

would it make or break your relationship? would you feel that the person isn't 100% if they refuse to pitch in with your child?

any and all comments welcome.